What If I Am Not a Good Mother?

What If I Am Not a Good Mother?

There were 10 of us. I came first and helped raise the rest. I did not want my mother’s life. I did not want to alternate between being pregnant and breastfeeding for twenty years, nor did I want the underlying lack of autonomy and choice that represented to me. Yet still, her legacy and example ran deep, and I was always sure that whatever edition of motherhood I might someday desire would come easily to me. I wasn’t prepared for what actually happened.

A Maternity Leave Expert on Creating Her Own Maternity Leave

A Maternity Leave Expert on Creating Her Own Maternity Leave

Arianna Taboada is a maternity leave researcher and expert. She helps entrepreneurs build their own maternity leaves when neither work nor country provide support. In this interview, we talk about everything from grief to loneliness to overwhelm, and how to create your own framework to make it through the transition to motherhood.

My Newborn Is Breaking All My Habits — for the Better

My Newborn Is Breaking All My Habits — for the Better

The first several weeks after my baby arrived, I tried to do everything: be a new mom, keep the house clean, pickup after myself, get work done, answer emails.  Slowly, despite my attempts to thwart it, I realized that I only had a few increments each day. Nursing is...